Him Matters Him Matters

You are not alone.
Help is here.

If you are a man experiencing domestic violence, abuse, or coercive control — what happened to you is real, it is not your fault, and there is support.

Crisis hotlines

Phone and text lines available now — free, confidential, no appointment needed.

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Local resources

Colorado, Texas, and Arizona — verified organizations by city, with crisis lines.

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Resources by situation

Legal help, shelters, counseling, custody support, and more — filtered to what you need.

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Rebuilding your life

Getting safe is step one. This is about restoring your self-worth, your footing, and your future.

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About this site

Who runs this, why it exists, and how to get in touch if you have a resource to add.

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